Krakatoa

I’ve really been enjoying co-hosting the Chastity Chat Twitter space with @thumpermn (other than I realize my voice is far less Barry White and far more eerily close to The Nanny when I hear the recording). We’ve discussed a number of topics and the insights of some of the participants always makes me think more

What’s In a Word?

Boy, pig, slave. I’ve been all of them. What is the difference? Or is there a distinction without a difference? Is it just power exchange in a bdsm relationship by another name? Yes, and no. Just like with chastity, there is no one right way to have a D/s relationship. Your dynamic as a sub

Too Fast/Too Slow

I met a man. No, that’s not quite true. I met a man I want to serve and to give my cock and my key to. I think I found my Sir. After weeks of talking and texting, we spent time together, and since then we’ve talked every day. He’s in my head and in

Maybe, Finally

I finally met my Sir. We met in LA last weekend. I was up visiting friends. I was nervous to say the least. Sir describes himself as a demisexual, which I had to google: Okay, I think I understand. I’m not that way, but if I’ve learned anything in the last 56 years around the

I Know Why The Caged Boy Sings

Co-hosting our Chastity Chat space with @thumpermn (and his insightful questions) has really made me deeply ponder why, when I saw my first cage, I knew it was meant for me and why I’ve always wanted to be locked as a submissive, or rather why I have always only submitted to men who want me

How to Own A Permanently Locked Sub: Second Semester

Wow, the original post took off like a rocket, and the feedback has been amazing. I didn’t realize how many subs and Doms are in a similar situation. There really is zero information about taking on someone in long term/permanent chastity. Everything out there is basically all about incorporating chastity play and spicing up your

Maybe….

I’ve been talking with someone. Someone who gets what is going on in my kink brain and who wants pretty much the same things, from the Top side. Someone who is as excited about me being locked as I am, who wants to keep me locked away, and who encourages and desires it as much

Faggot

I know my moods swing like crazy, and my desires have serious highs and lows. Right now, I’m definitely in a high kink mode, and I think it’s mainly because I’m finally embracing my inner nature, that of a faggot. Its been an almost 3.5 year journey from Dom Top to get to this point,

Irish Eyes

He’s so fucking hot. We have a lot in common. We share kinks and fetishes, particularly gear. I forget how much older I am when I’m with him, except if there’s a mirror around. He thinks I’m sexy. I’m not going to argue. I think I left sexy behind 10 years and 20 pounds ago.

PreParing

I had a date last week. It was the first date I’ve had in a year and a half, for reasons we all are sadly well aware of. I got fully vaccinated in February, but the pandemic was in full swing here and while I felt safer, there was no way I was going “out”.